Dream For Fools

 Hi there... So are you naive person? Is it bad? What is it? Well... In the dictionary meaning   (of a person or action) showing a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgement. So i bet everyone know the feeling already, like we think something in the nice positive way, while the other side is not. Its funny because i never learn this before never rellly pay attantion to it. I just thought if anyone did something bad in front of me, i will face it directly, if they did in the back i just let it go, and move on. I just thught that kind of things or person not worth my time. Is that naivity. I dont know. Because i do believe, we attract what we are. And sometimes i get so piss if someone took advantage to a kind people, they did bad to them because they think they can. And God i swear, i didn't do anything about it, first maybe because its none of my bussiness, and second no one asking for my opinion or help. So i get one friend like this back when i'm in the colloge, i always said ...

Hi there... So i watched atwo people talking doing the things that i want to do so much. They have a podcast and talk about self improvement and everything, inviting inspirational people that i admire so much, trying to share something useful for everyone, helping others to change to be better. You know thats my dream. I'm about to make it happen, i hope so. I'm on my way. Even writing this make me smile. Well you can start writing yours.   The thing that i loved the most about self development is, you always want to be better. Thats idea it self is awsome i think. And the more you learn, the more you know you sould search more deeply not from the outside of you but from the inside. And the guy from The Mindset Mentor told that the most importan thing is, Most of us feel not enough and because we not enough we feel unworthy of love. So the siclus continue. If we can just start here he said, the way will be much easier. Because we know we are wining already.  How to get th...

 Hi there... So lately i don't know i think the word is 'awarness' more accurate. Everything that i learned this week come to that. And the more i learn the more i think i have a difficulty to see and to apply it. Like it so overwhelming, so hard to apply. Of course when i said this i tried for a view times alrady. Let things happen the way it is, and leard to accept, what a concept. So fascinating to disscuss and heard, but oh lord help us. Well... there are something bigger then ourself, then i that we know is our identity, but who is i'am, i belong to whom. Kind a like that. Its a big concept and yet just a fiew people know it. Like we have concious mind. That our mind is not us, is just our thinking. and who is this person doing the thinking. That is our conciousness and if we arrived to this step that means we are aware. That our awareness.  Most of the time we are living in unconcious way, we are not aware, just reacting to everything. We let our mind dictate our ...

 Hi there... Ohhh what a word right, asuming. We assume things. Such an egoistic victimize words it think. We assume things us the way we think. I've been there. And of course i think i'm right. Well... i learned or study about how the mind works and everything, and lot of times hearing the speaker talked about depression, that we have control about it, we as a human being, having a concious mind can always change or choose how we think or what to think. So thats the things that i believe, we have the power within.  And my love one have a depression and anxiety problem, so as me whose always know because i always think that i study enough always said "you know you have the power to change, you are capable to choose the things that you want to think", or get yourself together sometimes i said or just think because i love him enough not to tell that, but to be honest of course i think that. Like c'mon, really... then i said, can you just relax and believe and you kn...

 Hi there... I love this world, it is just such an alignment with what I learned from my religion (Islam) that before we came to this world we already had our purpose in life. What will we do as a human being. And this Opera show Carolyn Myss talks about that everybody in this world has a purpose in life, that everything we do is significant. So glad to be hear that isn't...  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uIxH0nV12uk So the big question in life, how do we find our purpose in life? she said we all have some kind of guide inside ourselves, that our spirit is always leading us to the direction that we suppose. That everything that happened is supposed to be as long as we know how to appreciate life, greatful with what we have. That's the foundation, knowing how to appreciate life is the way to respect our life, if we don't respect our life how can we have the courage to do the things that we suppose to. There are 4 types of archetypes (patterns of behavior) that we all have ...

 Hi there... I just listened to Oprah super Sunday a full show that gathered a view of people talking about death, what can we learn from that moment, what is it left us and it is so funny that I'm so busy crying I don't even take any note.    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPmyMmPil0g   One of my experiences is I had a close friend who died at a young age not long ago and it taught me a lot of something, after his death I felt like we were nothing but what we did, what we said, what we left in others nothing else. Not a single thing. I learned that nothing is important rather than the love that we have, love in the people we care about. Nothing. The things that we care so much, that we do anything for, is nothing. We won't even think about it when we're sick or gone. We don't bring anything with us. So that hit me so much. And after that I always learned how not to be so attached with things, giving, how to always be kind to another, be loving.  That's what I ...

 Hi there... Its weeknd today, its amusing i don't know why i keep writing. I learn a lot I think these days, I'm affraid if I don't put it directly it will quickly go through me like all these years I always study but I feel I learn much more these days. And I tried to try it directly, apply what I just learned. I feel like I want to make the time. I want to see what is the thing that I learned. Kinda like that. Haha... Alright, let's go to the title 'Observe'. I don't know when I learned these exactly, just everything came together when I heard Eckhart Tole talk in some of his videos on youtube, I read his book too btw, just a little bit different heard him talk, like so... calm, and peaceful, and makes me want to listen more. He opened his mouth talking with a question view and it felt like it was my question and so on. "funny he said every question goes to the same answer just the way to explain is different, and every question is the same question ...

 Hi there... So here let's talk from the begining, This lesson i've got from  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0cODqqYyi8  Dr. Gabor is a famous Pshycology normally talking about trauma. So he start with asking a question of 'Why'. If the world that we live in having so much trouble let's stop asking what to do about it, because we can always find the cure, not the source of the illness. When we see carefully about what is really going on with the society now, people are so easily stress out and mental illness increas, and even a child starting using medicine for a lot of illness.  In the Western medical health they always seperate the body and the mind, where the body and the mind cannot be seperate, just like individuals and environment or society cannot be seperate. So if somebody sick, we need to look in the body and the mind mentality, what is going on in the both part. If a lot of adult having a problem with stress then what about the child, how come they expi...

 Hi there... I don't know since when we don't follow these rules of life anymore. We quit if we think things are going so hard, we can't do it. I try enough time. Well we never thought like that when we were a kid. We will learn to walk every single day no matter how long it will take. Our parents will support us no matter what. But when we grow up, we has something called time that we put in ourselves, if I try until next year and I can't then we think it's not meant for us. We never think that when we fall to walk we say maybe this isn't for us right. I think the world makes us think that we have limited time to do or persue whatever it is that we want.  I think this one more world is another word for saying don't give up, try again tomorrow, maybe tomorrow, until we will reach it. Sometimes we give up because we think it takes too long already, we are to attach for the end results, but the real power is in the present moment, the time while we do the thin...

 Hi there...  Happy to keep writing to you. This is a common big and not so big problem. Finding a partner. We are looking for someone outside us to be with us, to complete us or we are affraid to be alone or we just want to become like everybody else. Whatever it is the reason. It is our fate i think, our destiny to be with someone, to share life, to have connection in this world, to continue generation, haha... Funny isn't. It is our natural condition to want and be with someone. But I think the problem here is the reason behind it. In this era where everything is availiable and because of that, we can easily give up and breakup if things get hard. So nothing last long 'is' our world now. Lot of situation nowdays that people are so desperate to find someone and get married, then divorce. Becuase the relation not serving them anymore. I'm not here to tell which one the right way to live a life. Just sharing the thing that i've got from studying and my own experienc...

Weird is it ? I just learned that you know we need to treat money as someone we love, because money is currency and currency is energy, and energy is a life force. We all need money, it gave you option and freedom. and who don't want that, right. well if something bad come to your mind already we need something to work for. So let's write down your love letter to money... While i'm writhing here with you. And let's see how we really feel about it. No shame be honest just between you and me :) Dear money... So... Hi there love, I think I never pay so much attention about you, because I know you will come whenever I need to, maybe that's why it's no wonder you've never been with me so much, because I don't really think you have to be with me always. I think I can easily talk about you and share you with anyone I love and need, because you always come when I need it. But I think I have a difficulty calling you, asking you to be always next to me, give me mo...

 Hi There... Happy monday... so happy cause i continuesly writing. Well i won't describe all my feeling so let's go to the subject. What do i mean by don't believe everything that we thinking and another part is we become what we thinking. That all so ture. The first part is we do become what we are thinking the most. So the major question is what we thinking the most? and if the answer we think all the negative, blame, victim, resentment and all, that is a pattern, and if we thinking all that most of the time that will become our character and become our future, and if we concious or aware nobody want to be that kind of person. So don't believe that, thats just our thinking. We can change our thinking, so we need to choose what we want to think. The problem here is, how can i change my thinking, if you said nobody want to become a bad lack person, we are want to become joyful happy person. we just can't. Well is not we just can't, it is a habit way of thinking,...

 Hi there...  I do have a routine that i always do every single day, not just brushing my theeth, its like a few things to improve yourself, to remind yourself to make you keep growing. I don't realize about that before, but now i just finished whatching a video of a guy talking about morning routine. And he was so wonderful, he inspired me so much you can whatch it in this link  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eR21ynDHwH8 He basicly talking about how we live our life, it so beautiful, to just accept. If things happend the way that we dont want it, or something bad happen anything outside of us, that we cannot change it, give ourself  5 minutes set an alarm, to dwell with it, to complain, cry, sad, moaning, anything, then when the alarm goes of, accept it, Because you can't change it the things that alreay happened. It is hard, sometime we just want to be with the feeling, blame the situation for whatever it is that we are facing, but in fact indeed we cannot change ...

 Hi there... I put that tittle on my bio instagram for such a really long time. I do believe in this words sentance so mush. But i can still see not many people get it. They let all the things outside of them become who they are, or the situation that they have become who they are, or just so not become an arrogant they lower themselve so much till they believe in it. I know they want to be better but it just seem to much, so they just accept themselve as they are, not even thinking. Just followin the majority. We want to fit in, Be like everybody else.  This is the basic knowledge that Earl Nightingale talk about, that men dont think. You know what i think we do. We just live life seeing what everybody doing, what they have we want to have. We don't even ask ourselve do want the things that everybody wants. I listen to this massage since a long time ago. and i know i always want something that bigger that me. I always want to learn and be better. Even tho until now i still ca...

 Hi there... We are modern people, whatever you wanna call it mellenial Gen Z or anything, its so hard talking about what we believe i think, like theology, relegion, because its too old or too personal, or too traditional or too many. It is so ambigous too blury i dont know maybe i made up the words. Is just we are so mess up, we are so affraid too tell our truth, like i don't know i dont believe God exist because i just dont know why or whats the point anyway. I think is not the right argument. And now event a doctor, i just watched a doctor in the human brain i think something like neuroscientist kinda like that said, we cannot even say the word God among the scientist meeting, bacause they willl not accept it, they want an explanation because 'they are scientis'.  We are too fancy. Isn't funny i mean irony right, thats the magic right there, that we are so wonderful beyond imagination itself, the creator of our being. Well i call it God. Whatever you wanna call it. ...

 Hi there... This tittle is the line that i put on my tiktok video today, accidently i bump into a video that talked about the dream that we have, he is a mucisian whose been persuing his dream for more than 10 years, then finally make it. He said that's the thing that you know you want to do, that i don't think i can be or do anything aside of music. So i think here's the big lesson. What is the seed or the dream that you have in your heart. Nobody can tought that i think. It just there, you can feel it. It moves your heart. You know i'm so excited talk about this, because i know i have it inside my heart, that i want to become a public speaker, a motivational speaker, a teacher, someone that can help others trough her words, showed by her action. I loved that idea, i loved and adore people who done that, whatever it is that they do, the one who is consistent and then become great and then share kindes into the world, inviting other people to do the same. I think a dre...

 Hi there... Well actually i'm here will talked about some good information that i heard from Tony Robbins some tips to guide us to accieve our goals. In the middle of the video there are some big words about finnace, because one of the point is how to be succesful in the bussines life, will not far from the word isvestment, asset, alocation, interest, saving, well the last part i can get, but i need to learn more about the rest. And if i can be honest with you is not even my most energetic day so i choose to just continue writing the things that i get and how i feel about it. Do you know that really DISCIPLINE is really something, because you cannot make an excusses, so here i'm sitting and writing, even tho i really dont fell like it. The first part that i get from the study tonight was, in life we need to know what season we are in. Because that so important. If we are in the spring time we should know that we need to plant something, and smart enough we need to invest more ...

 Hi there...  Jadi aku baru selesai belajar dari nonton video about how to become a better communicator, from this link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_lpMg-U1Dk&t=226s  So what i got is the pupose of having a communication or conversation with someone is we want to be connected,   katanya kalo kita ngobrol dengan orang yang baik komunikasi nya biasanya kita akan memahami maksud dari si pembicara, jadi kita ada di satu arah yang sama, walaupun bisa jadi kita memiliki pemahaman yang berbeda, tapi kita paham maksud dari satu sama lain, dari situ kita merasa kita saling terkoneksi.  Ada beberapa jenis tipe komunikasi ; yang pertama adalah Practical komunikasi yaitu komunikasi yang berdasarkan sederhana suatu permasalahan yang bisa langsung di berikan solusi nya. Yang kedua adalah Emotional komunikasi yaitu komunikasi yang berdasarkan emosi atau perasaaan jadi biasanya obrolan yang lebih kepada ingin didengarkan dan dimengerti bukan diberikan jawaban...

 Hi there... I always so acxited listening to the succesfull people talking for graduated school, so this time coming from Abraham Weaver a succeccful bussines man talked to Atandfor garudate bussines school. I loved every minutes of his talk. So he talked a bout how to live an asymmetric life.  Thera are 3 principal to live an assymmetric life 1. Do hard things, you know what this is the things that my mom always tought me since i was a child, that things are hard, you need to learn the hard things first, nothing in life coming easy. and of course get comfortable to the uncomfortable. Every time we try to change its always the worst part, and it will get worst so stick to it, then at the bottom along the way you will find the biggest part it is fear. Go past that. 2. Do your thing, everyone has their own things, dont follow anyone  because we all have different purpose in life, do the things that is you. Because whatever the things that we choose to do there are sufferin...

 Hi there... Lately i've been around a learning about life, how to live it, how to design it, how to achieve, what to achieve, and a lot more. Today information or knowledge coming from youtube video harvard bussines school. Talked about how to build our life.  If we talking about life, of corse we talked about succes and happiness, but what is success, how can we masure it. It is a tough matter.  Some Advice said : "succes is getting what you want, happines is wanting what you get".  " marry a happy person, because you cannot change somebody who isn't hapy to somebody who is happy" "make your success is about make a diffence in others" Another one is "follow your passion" (is not a good advice) because we don't have enough time to just do one thing. Is it achievement, or significat, legacy or happines that we persue. And is not about just balancing. Life is like a juggler, we need to ayes in every ball, put energy in whatever the bal...

 Hi there... Today i watched a view video that i think will made me think, and you know just as reminding me of how to better. That's where i start, and led me to another. I always tried to feed my mind any time i can lately, like won't even let 10 minutes goes by to watching endlessly information. But in the moment  i write this i just realise, it is what i'm doing now, adding more and more information. Okay let's put aside that now because i wouldn't know where to finish.  First one is from Jim Rhon, an old man, a wonderful one teaches us a lot about philosophy. He said the first things we need to set in our life is our philosophy, about any aspect in our life, do we have a good one? in relations, in health, in economic, etc. If we have the right one, then no matter the amount small or big, we will get further in life. Then good activity, attitude, then get the result. Simple words that i understood is, if we have a good philosophy, meaning we see life in a good p...

 Hi there... I just finished watching a Video of a doctor talked about the human mind, about everything the way we live our life and why, the believe, the issue, and all of the problem and why its appear in the first place, how to change it, and all. Watch to get the detail in this link  soo... Yang aku dapet adalah, pikiran kita memiliki 3 bagian.  * Human system, yaitu pikiran yang berfikir logic biasanya bersifat lambat, di design untuk memberikan rasa aman.  * Chimp system, yaitu pikiran yang selalu memberikan alasan alasan, to always resonate with everything that happen, love the ego, and always want to win *Computer system, yaitu pikiran yang sudah ter program.  Jadi kadang kita melakukan sesuatu hal yang telah menjadi kebiasaan kita, dan one day something happen terus kita act atau merespon diluar kebiasaan kita (disini sistem chimp muncul). Setelah kita sadar biasanya kita akan menyalahkan diri sendiri, dengan berfikir kenapa kita melakukan hal tersebut,...

 Hello friend.... aku baru aja finish watching video from youtube  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UMmOQCf98-k&t=10 tentang gimana sih caranya kita ngelatih otak kita supaya kita menpai tujuan kita, atau menggapai cita-cita atau goals yang udah kita setting.  Kembali ke poin terpenting yaitu DO YOU HAVE A GOAL, yes thats number one thing. kebanyakan orang gak tau keinginannya apa, pengen mencapai apa, pengen punya apa, pengen jadi apa, so most of the time they never achieve it. Gimana kita mau mencapai suatu tujuan kalo kita aja gak pernah menentukan tujuan nya kemana. life will drive us to anywhere, "i Love surprises" one quote said. Well you can end up anywhere that's one way to look at things. Jadi tentukan dulu, apa sih goals kita. Then move on to the next. Ask yourself, are you interested to achieve your goal, or are you commited?. Jadi kita bisa liat dari jawaban yang kita mau, kadang kita penegen aja punya cita-cita cuma gak pernah berkomitment ingin mewujudka...

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