Dream For Fools

Hi there... So i watched atwo people talking doing the things that i want to do so much. They have a podcast and talk about self improvement and everything, inviting inspirational people that i admire so much, trying to share something useful for everyone, helping others to change to be better. You know thats my dream. I'm about to make it happen, i hope so. I'm on my way. Even writing this make me smile. Well you can start writing yours.   The thing that i loved the most about self development is, you always want to be better. Thats idea it self is awsome i think. And the more you learn, the more you know you sould search more deeply not from the outside of you but from the inside. And the guy from The Mindset Mentor told that the most importan thing is, Most of us feel not enough and because we not enough we feel unworthy of love. So the siclus continue. If we can just start here he said, the way will be much easier. Because we know we are wining already.  How to get th...

 Hi there... So lately i don't know i think the word is 'awarness' more accurate. Everything that i learned this week come to that. And the more i learn the more i think i have a difficulty to see and to apply it. Like it so overwhelming, so hard to apply. Of course when i said this i tried for a view times alrady. Let things happen the way it is, and leard to accept, what a concept. So fascinating to disscuss and heard, but oh lord help us. Well... there are something bigger then ourself, then i that we know is our identity, but who is i'am, i belong to whom. Kind a like that. Its a big concept and yet just a fiew people know it. Like we have concious mind. That our mind is not us, is just our thinking. and who is this person doing the thinking. That is our conciousness and if we arrived to this step that means we are aware. That our awareness.  Most of the time we are living in unconcious way, we are not aware, just reacting to everything. We let our mind dictate our ...

 Hi there... Ohhh what a word right, asuming. We assume things. Such an egoistic victimize words it think. We assume things us the way we think. I've been there. And of course i think i'm right. Well... i learned or study about how the mind works and everything, and lot of times hearing the speaker talked about depression, that we have control about it, we as a human being, having a concious mind can always change or choose how we think or what to think. So thats the things that i believe, we have the power within.  And my love one have a depression and anxiety problem, so as me whose always know because i always think that i study enough always said "you know you have the power to change, you are capable to choose the things that you want to think", or get yourself together sometimes i said or just think because i love him enough not to tell that, but to be honest of course i think that. Like c'mon, really... then i said, can you just relax and believe and you kn...

 Hi there... I love this world, it is just such an alignment with what I learned from my religion (Islam) that before we came to this world we already had our purpose in life. What will we do as a human being. And this Opera show Carolyn Myss talks about that everybody in this world has a purpose in life, that everything we do is significant. So glad to be hear that isn't...  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uIxH0nV12uk So the big question in life, how do we find our purpose in life? she said we all have some kind of guide inside ourselves, that our spirit is always leading us to the direction that we suppose. That everything that happened is supposed to be as long as we know how to appreciate life, greatful with what we have. That's the foundation, knowing how to appreciate life is the way to respect our life, if we don't respect our life how can we have the courage to do the things that we suppose to. There are 4 types of archetypes (patterns of behavior) that we all have ...

 Hi there... I just listened to Oprah super Sunday a full show that gathered a view of people talking about death, what can we learn from that moment, what is it left us and it is so funny that I'm so busy crying I don't even take any note.    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPmyMmPil0g   One of my experiences is I had a close friend who died at a young age not long ago and it taught me a lot of something, after his death I felt like we were nothing but what we did, what we said, what we left in others nothing else. Not a single thing. I learned that nothing is important rather than the love that we have, love in the people we care about. Nothing. The things that we care so much, that we do anything for, is nothing. We won't even think about it when we're sick or gone. We don't bring anything with us. So that hit me so much. And after that I always learned how not to be so attached with things, giving, how to always be kind to another, be loving.  That's what I ...

 Hi there... Its weeknd today, its amusing i don't know why i keep writing. I learn a lot I think these days, I'm affraid if I don't put it directly it will quickly go through me like all these years I always study but I feel I learn much more these days. And I tried to try it directly, apply what I just learned. I feel like I want to make the time. I want to see what is the thing that I learned. Kinda like that. Haha... Alright, let's go to the title 'Observe'. I don't know when I learned these exactly, just everything came together when I heard Eckhart Tole talk in some of his videos on youtube, I read his book too btw, just a little bit different heard him talk, like so... calm, and peaceful, and makes me want to listen more. He opened his mouth talking with a question view and it felt like it was my question and so on. "funny he said every question goes to the same answer just the way to explain is different, and every question is the same question ...

 Hi there... So here let's talk from the begining, This lesson i've got from  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0cODqqYyi8  Dr. Gabor is a famous Pshycology normally talking about trauma. So he start with asking a question of 'Why'. If the world that we live in having so much trouble let's stop asking what to do about it, because we can always find the cure, not the source of the illness. When we see carefully about what is really going on with the society now, people are so easily stress out and mental illness increas, and even a child starting using medicine for a lot of illness.  In the Western medical health they always seperate the body and the mind, where the body and the mind cannot be seperate, just like individuals and environment or society cannot be seperate. So if somebody sick, we need to look in the body and the mind mentality, what is going on in the both part. If a lot of adult having a problem with stress then what about the child, how come they expi...

 Hi there... I don't know since when we don't follow these rules of life anymore. We quit if we think things are going so hard, we can't do it. I try enough time. Well we never thought like that when we were a kid. We will learn to walk every single day no matter how long it will take. Our parents will support us no matter what. But when we grow up, we has something called time that we put in ourselves, if I try until next year and I can't then we think it's not meant for us. We never think that when we fall to walk we say maybe this isn't for us right. I think the world makes us think that we have limited time to do or persue whatever it is that we want.  I think this one more world is another word for saying don't give up, try again tomorrow, maybe tomorrow, until we will reach it. Sometimes we give up because we think it takes too long already, we are to attach for the end results, but the real power is in the present moment, the time while we do the thin...

 Hi there...  Happy to keep writing to you. This is a common big and not so big problem. Finding a partner. We are looking for someone outside us to be with us, to complete us or we are affraid to be alone or we just want to become like everybody else. Whatever it is the reason. It is our fate i think, our destiny to be with someone, to share life, to have connection in this world, to continue generation, haha... Funny isn't. It is our natural condition to want and be with someone. But I think the problem here is the reason behind it. In this era where everything is availiable and because of that, we can easily give up and breakup if things get hard. So nothing last long 'is' our world now. Lot of situation nowdays that people are so desperate to find someone and get married, then divorce. Becuase the relation not serving them anymore. I'm not here to tell which one the right way to live a life. Just sharing the thing that i've got from studying and my own experienc...

Weird is it ? I just learned that you know we need to treat money as someone we love, because money is currency and currency is energy, and energy is a life force. We all need money, it gave you option and freedom. and who don't want that, right. well if something bad come to your mind already we need something to work for. So let's write down your love letter to money... While i'm writhing here with you. And let's see how we really feel about it. No shame be honest just between you and me :) Dear money... So... Hi there love, I think I never pay so much attention about you, because I know you will come whenever I need to, maybe that's why it's no wonder you've never been with me so much, because I don't really think you have to be with me always. I think I can easily talk about you and share you with anyone I love and need, because you always come when I need it. But I think I have a difficulty calling you, asking you to be always next to me, give me mo...

 Hi There... Happy monday... so happy cause i continuesly writing. Well i won't describe all my feeling so let's go to the subject. What do i mean by don't believe everything that we thinking and another part is we become what we thinking. That all so ture. The first part is we do become what we are thinking the most. So the major question is what we thinking the most? and if the answer we think all the negative, blame, victim, resentment and all, that is a pattern, and if we thinking all that most of the time that will become our character and become our future, and if we concious or aware nobody want to be that kind of person. So don't believe that, thats just our thinking. We can change our thinking, so we need to choose what we want to think. The problem here is, how can i change my thinking, if you said nobody want to become a bad lack person, we are want to become joyful happy person. we just can't. Well is not we just can't, it is a habit way of thinking,...

 Hi there...  I do have a routine that i always do every single day, not just brushing my theeth, its like a few things to improve yourself, to remind yourself to make you keep growing. I don't realize about that before, but now i just finished whatching a video of a guy talking about morning routine. And he was so wonderful, he inspired me so much you can whatch it in this link  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eR21ynDHwH8 He basicly talking about how we live our life, it so beautiful, to just accept. If things happend the way that we dont want it, or something bad happen anything outside of us, that we cannot change it, give ourself  5 minutes set an alarm, to dwell with it, to complain, cry, sad, moaning, anything, then when the alarm goes of, accept it, Because you can't change it the things that alreay happened. It is hard, sometime we just want to be with the feeling, blame the situation for whatever it is that we are facing, but in fact indeed we cannot change ...