Attachment

 Hi there...

So here let's talk from the begining, This lesson i've got from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0cODqqYyi8 Dr. Gabor is a famous Pshycology normally talking about trauma. So he start with asking a question of 'Why'. If the world that we live in having so much trouble let's stop asking what to do about it, because we can always find the cure, not the source of the illness. When we see carefully about what is really going on with the society now, people are so easily stress out and mental illness increas, and even a child starting using medicine for a lot of illness. 

In the Western medical health they always seperate the body and the mind, where the body and the mind cannot be seperate, just like individuals and environment or society cannot be seperate. So if somebody sick, we need to look in the body and the mind mentality, what is going on in the both part. If a lot of adult having a problem with stress then what about the child, how come they expirenced on that. Well everything is connected. 

So let's exmaine the basic need of human being, what is the nature of human ; As an infant we need an attachment the baby cannot left alone, then we need to carry them anywhere sense of touch, and not letting the kids cry, because we nee to help them to fill their need, and not let hitting the kids. We need connection thats what we are, But in now in the modern parenting they teached the parent to let the kids cry, and let the kids get use to it find another methode to make them sleep etc, We learn to become indepent, to do everything by ourself, to become individual, to not really depending with other people, even to our family.

 Now days people try to discipline their child to become independent since baby, allowing them to kinda figure it out by themself. I don't kinda contrast study i learn, the other one we need to let child to grow with their mind to let them wonder about anything, to let them think because child will find a way to figure it out if we give them time, rather than rushing in and solve the problem for them. And here i learn because we become so independent and individualistic, we are less and less have connection to people. Even the relation between parent and child have a limit for a certain treatment, we don't go out for shopping anymore, we don't interact with another human being even for our basic need. 

Base on this situation we cannot avoid the individualistic that occur in our society, people are more and more having less interaction with another human being, no wonder we become easily stressful. Because is not our nature. Stress coming from supressing our feeling for long period of time, then later than we know we become depress. What is the solution of this... It is a long way, we need to change the whole are, our parenting, our school system, our society, a long way... But we can always start from ourself i think. Start with the people closest to us, you know what my lovely husband is on a depression now, i think all the things that i describe above is what his living for years. So where to start? from awarness, love, kindness, honesty, joyfully, care... If its too much to ask from other, lets start from ourself. Hopefully we can spread the love kindness and all to people close to us. Because that human nature, To Love.

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