NYAMAN...


    Most of us selalu nyari kenyamanan, kalo gak ngerasa nyaman biasanya gak akan bertahan lama. apapun itu, sama temen, sama pasangan, sama barang, anything. There is nothing wrong with that, tapi kalo kita selalu stay dan fokus sama kenyamanan kita gak akan kemana-mana, gak akan tumbuh dan berkembang, eeet dah biologi banget bahasanya :D Tapi emang iya, kalo kita mau grow ya pasti harus ninggalin zona nyaman, sakit-sakit dulu lah baru bersenang-senang .... fill the blank (lagu kali). Gigi aja kalo baru mau tumbuh sakit banget, abis itu.. yah semua tau lah manfaatnya. I believe semuanya punya proses nya masing-masing.

     Biasanya semua diawali dengan niat mau menghindarin masalah, one way untuk stick  dalam zona nyaman. Kadang dalam berteman aja kita selalu nyari yang nyaman, yang gak pernah nyakitin, selalu jaga perasaan, selalu ngucapin apa yang kita mau denger, bilang iya padahal enggak karna gak mau nyakitin dan seterusnya.  Mengindari little bit argument karna gak sependapat, Endingnya bukan cuma nyakitin diri sendiri juga nyakitin orang lain.

    But that's what we want, soalnya kalo gak gitu lama-lama gak nyaman, ngerasa gak dingertiin, ngerasa gak didengerin, ngerasa disakitin. So lebih baik menghindarin masalah daripada kehilangan. Not so far until you can lose yourself, but lama-lama you don't even know what's good and what's right for you, not sure what you enjoy anymore, as long us they happy. Kalo udah gitu, you will become yes person. Yes with all people need but you. Then you will think, gakpp kok, dari pada nyakitin orang, dari pada nnti dia pergi, dari pada sendiri, dari pada kesepian, and on and on long list of excuse. You know what, I believe kalo kamu sama orang yang tepat, it hurts them if you are liyng. 

 I heard a quote today "maybe its not a peaceful conversation, but it will bring you peace". Its not about becoming selfish, to say and do whatever you want tanpa peduli orang lain, but act, say and do something as you matter too, just like the other person. Kalo udah gitu mungkin you will say, nyaman itu bukan yang terpenting, tapi jujur dulu sama apa yang ngebuat kita nyaman, itu yang penting, then it will grow from there. 


See you when you get there :)

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