Temen Bagi Kamu?



Dulu (sampe lulus kuliah) bagi aku temen itu segalanyaaa, sekarang umur 23 temen itu yang masih jaga hubungan meskipun gak ketemu, bukan cuma basi-basi bilang kangen di postingan doang yaaa, KANGEN ITU kalo emang jauh telponan dan bilang kangen beneran, gak butuh seluruh dunia tau kalo kamu itu lagi kangen sama orang, kalo orang itu gak ngerasa kalo kamu kangen juga sama dia, update sana sini yang padalah dalam hati biasa ajaa, hedeehhh jujur aj aku percaya semua cewe pernah gitu, even me pernah juga, kebutuhan kali ya, but its okey lah, we need to keep silaturahmi, hahaa (alasan banget). 

Tapi tetep gak sih kadang kita punya yang bener-bener diKangenin tapi ngerasa kayaknya doi biasa aja, apa lagi nih ya kalo udah lawan jenis, mau pake perasaan atau enggak tetep aja menerut aku kasusnya ribet. Temenan cowo-cewe itu emang serba salah, mau bilang kangen ntar dikira baper, gak bilang kangen padahal kangen, musti gimana dong, padahalkan emang gitu rasanya? terus salah siapa kalo udah gitu? jujur belum ketemu jawaban yang memuaskan (yang gak nyakitin kedua belah atau tiga belah pihak yang bersangkutan).

Kalo kalian pernah ngalamin kasus yang sama, mungkin pada tau ni rasanya, APALAGI kalo kalian itu cewe yang deket or sahabatan sama cowo yang udah punya pacar, fix banget, kalian adalah 80% penyebab berantem nya hubungan temen or sahabat kalian. kalo aku nih ya udah bosen banget yang namanya ngerasain yang begitu, jadi udah pasrah aja kalo dimusuhin, atau tiba-tiba kamu gak bisa ngobrol atau jalan bareng temen kamu lagi, udah terima aja, soalnya kamu gak tau, soalnya ada juga yang baik banget depan muka kamu, eehhhh tak diduga dan tak disangka-sangka kamu dicurigain dan dijadiin kambing hitam disetiap urusan rumah tangga mereka (rumah tangga disini kiasan loh yaa, bukan rumah tangga beneran, soalnya kita lagi gak ngebahas pelakor ni guys, wkk)

Jadi,intinya kalo ada kasus kayak gini, cuma satu solusinya, SABARRR aja,terus biarin aja  ngalir go with the flow gituuu, ntar juga temen kamu nyadar yang lebih penting jujur dan perlu buat diluangkan waktunya bakalan ngerti, terus yaa kalo udah gitu karena kita yang cewe, dan yang paling peka,kudu nya paham lah musti treat cewe nya temen kamu gimana,  jadi mau dia peduli and atau gak peduli, cuma pura-pura atau beneran, yaudah lah yaaa, It Is Not Your Problem, Its theirs. 

soo, just be you, no matter what, deeply we knew what we want, and we knew our intention  then try to always #keepitgood :) 
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